Wanting things I don’t have is keeping me from being happy with the things I do have. But I won’t pursue the things I want because I know that they won’t make me happy. So I’m not giving up the wanting but I’m not doing anything about it either.
I’m tolerating: I’m not accepting things as they are, nor am I taking action to change them.
Presence, presence, presence. Where is the door that leads me to thee?
And that’s the issue, isn’t it? I know where the door is but I don’t believe it’s really the door.
It’s 10 PM and I’m in bed (hurray!) writing this on my laptop. But I don’t want to meditate when I’m done. I want to watch a show on Hulu or something. Why? Because I can zone out when I watch a show and I’m not left alone with my thoughts. Those fucking thoughts. When I meditate, it seems like those thoughts get even louder, even crueler. Sometimes the mind quiets and there’s a deep peace. But not always. And so I don’t trust it.
If a door led to peace one day and pain the next, wouldn’t you hesitate at least a little bit before opening it?
Today’s report:
Eating was a solid B until this evening when I drank beer and ate cookies.
The morning was good with 3 enjoyable coaching sessions. I got to meet and coach a very cool Brazilian man who is living in Malaysia. But this afternoon SUCKED, hovering at like a 2 out of 10. I felt pathetic, undesirable, and hopeless, and helpless to do anything about it. I finally got out of my head and around some friends, and I feel a bit better now.
I’m in bed by 10 PM like I wanted to be. And I did push-ups today for the first time since November (I noticed that the push-ups lifted my mood a little). I intend to make that a daily habit for at least March. I’m going to train again for my “600 push-ups in an hour” goal. Last time it took me a month and a half to reach that goal.
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