Today is the first anniversary of this blog. For a full year I’ve been posting (almost) daily my reflections, observations, and experiences from a focused practice of inner peace. Do I feel more peaceful after one year?
I’m much more in tune with my thoughts and emotions. I’m much more aware of my triggers and recipes [...]
Archive for November, 2008
Day 50 (2008-11-27): An anniversary of forgetting and remembering
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Day 49 (2008-11-26): I still love her
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, future, joy, life, love, pain, past, Peace, peace in relationships, present, relationships on November 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I got to be with the woman I love today for two hours. This is the relationship that “ended” about two months ago. It didn’t end, of course, because we are still relating, as friends. It changed.
But it didn’t. That’s what I experienced tonight. We still love each other and we’re still as connected as [...]
Day 47 (2008-11-24): Gifts and problems
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, gifts, God, life, love, Peace, peace in relationships, relationships, romantic relationships, women on November 24, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
There’s a saying I love: When God sends you a gift, he wraps it in a problem.
After talking to a friend today about some of his challenges in his relationship, I realized that this saying explains more than one past romantic relationship of mine in a way that I haven’t previously considered. I got the [...]
Day 45 (2008-11-22): The conscious recognition of beauty
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, beauty, clutter, de-cluttering, life, love, paperwork, Peace, peace in relationships, relationships on November 22, 2008 | 1 Comment »
Today I finished a huge de-cluttering project. I finally worked my way through all of the paperwork clutter in my office. I’ve had a pile (or piles) of varying size for as many years as I can remember. It feels liberating — and a little scary — to not have it. It’s kind of like [...]
Day 44 (2008-11-21): Love is a choice
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, attraction, best friend, choice, energy, friendship, high school, life, love, Peace, peace in relationships, relationships, respect, romantic relationships on November 21, 2008 | 1 Comment »
I had this funny memory today about my best friend from high school. It made me think about our friendship, how tight we were — totally on each other’s side, totally supportive, and genuinely enjoying every moment we were together. And I realized this:
We created that. It didn’t just happen to us. For whatever reason, [...]
Day 39 (2008-11-16): Honoring the joy of relationship
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, dancing, Hannah Montana, inner peace, joy, life, music, Peace, peace in relationships, peace of mind, present moment, productivity, relationships, teleseminar, work on November 16, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
It’s been almost a week since I last posted. I’ve had thoughts to several times, but made other choices. I’m comfortable with those choices and I’m conscious that I benefit from more consistent posting to this blog, so I’m recommitting to daily posting, even if it means the posts will be shorter than usual.
This evening [...]
Day 33 (2008-11-10): Gratitude
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, abundance, Eckhart Tolle, gratitude, life, love, Morgana Rae, Peace, peace in relationships, Power of Now, prosperity, relationships, romantic relationships on November 10, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Source of Inspiration: Morgana Rae’s Abundance and Prosperity Blog
Tonight at PONG (my weekly Power of Now Group), we discussed gratitude using the 3-step process outlined by Morgana Rae in her recent blog post. It was one of the coolest discussions we’ve had in recent memory.
Here are some of the highlights:
Healthy am I. Happy am I. [...]
Day 32 (2008-11-09): Remembering I’m a red car
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged life, Eckhart Tolle, Peace, relationships, 100 Days of Peace, love, women, poor me, don Miguel Ruiz, Miguel Ruiz, peace in relationships, romantic relationships, Master of Love on November 9, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve spent the past few days swinging in and out of feeling sorry for myself. Poor me and the unfortunate circumstances of my life. How dreadful! (As Eckhart Tolle says…and then he chuckles. He rocks.)
Miguel Ruiz in Mastery of Love suggests that we be ourselves in our relationships so that when someone falls in love [...]
Day 27 (2008-11-04): You are my witness
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, blogging, blogs, co-listening, giving, I am loved, I'm not lovable, Kripalu, limiting beliefs, love, not good enough, Peace, peace in relationships, receiving, relationships, romantic relationships, shame, witness on November 4, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
The question of why I created this blog comes up from time to time. Not from other people as much as within myself. Am I vain for posting such personal information? Do I crave attention? I’m confident the answer is no to both questions. But until today I didn’t really understand what the answer was. [...]
Day 26 (2008-11-03): Water
Posted in 100 Days of Peace in Relationships, Peace, relationships, tagged 100 Days of Peace, divorce, life, marriage, Peace, peace in relationships, Power of Now, relationships, romantic relationships, The Power of Now, water on November 3, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Thanks to Bev for tonight’s topic at PONG (my Power of Now Group). We talked about the different qualities of water as metaphors for how we can choose to live our lives. The quality I admire most is how water nourishes whoever drinks it. This feels aligned with my sentiment on Friday about choosing to [...]