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Archive for January, 2008

Today marks the last day of January and two-thirds of the way through these 100 Days of Peace.
Tomorrow I will take this experiment up a notch and begin my February Game. What is my February Game exactly? Glad you asked!
Each day in February (with a few noted exceptions) I will focus on several rituals aimed [...]

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Today I noticed in me a little habit of telling myself, “Oh, I’ll do that tomorrow.”
I think it comes from a feeling of “I don’t wanna, and you can’t make me.”
I’ve noticed that when people feel like they haven’t had much of a say in what to do with their time, when they feel like [...]

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Source of inspiration: The Oprah show
First, let me answer the question of what I was doing watching Oprah. My brother-in-law and I have a joke that it’s okay for a man to watch Oprah if he’s flipping through the channels and he comes across the show and it catches his interest. This wasn’t quite that, [...]

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Source of inspiration: Recording of an Eckhart Tolle talk
Early on in this experiment, I practiced giving my full attention to whatever it was I was doing at any given moment.
Yesterday, I was reminded of this as I was listening to a recording of Eckhart Tolle. He said that “the primary purpose of your life is [...]

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Due to all of the driving I’ve done this weekend (and the shortened sleep I’ve gotten the past few nights), my energy feels low. I’m headed to a family dinner soon and would prefer to crawl into bed and be unconscious. 
So I’m interested in observing today how I relate to this story of [...]

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Today is an interesting study in contrast. I will be driving for hours by myself, then I will be at two parties with lots of people.
The opportunity is to observe who I am and how I relate to the world in each of these settings (social and solitary), and to understand each in contrast to [...]

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Source of inspiration: Coaching–Evoking Excellence in Others by James Flaherty
One of the coolest concepts in this coaching book I’m reading is the idea that, as human beings, we are always (yes, literally always) relating. To people, to things, to ideas, to situations, etc.
The next 3 days will be very social days for me. So I [...]

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Source of inspiration: Recent coaching session with a client
I was coaching a client recently and we were talking about his/her feelings around money. As a result, I started to explore my own feelings around money, and learned something important.
When I receive money in my business, the primary feeling I notice is relief. I think it’s [...]

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Wow, I totally spaced my blog post today. That’s not exactly true. I did remember it earlier in the day, but put off posting and then spaced out for the rest of the day.
Well, there is room for this to happen in this experiment. This is an exploration of inner peace, and a part of [...]

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Today I’ve been feeling anxiety and a sense of powerlessness. There are tasks/projects I’ve been wanting to get to (like this post), and it’s felt like the day has “gotten away from me.”
I know this is all mind-stuff. What it brings up for me is an opportunity to look at how I relate to time. [...]

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Source of Inspiration: Sally Friedman’s Question of the Month
Sally’s question this month is: What’s true for you? This feels like a great way to follow-up on the question I’ve been asking, “Where in my life am I not ready for change?” Let me explain:
Let’s say I look at an important relationship in my life, say [...]

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Source of inspiration: My dreams
Last night I had several dreams in which people I loved were in danger.
This morning, as I was reflecting on those dreams, I wondered if it might have to do with the attachments that I’ve been questioning: Where in my life am I not ready for change? (See Day 53.)
I remember [...]

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Last night when I was driving and this morning when I was meditating, I experienced a joy by focusing my attention on the present. It seemed easy, almost effortless.
I think the joy came from an attitude of wonder. Like when you look up at the stars or see the Grand Canyon or visit Las Vegas [...]

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Source of inspiration: Conversation with my friend, Jim Stevens
Jim and I were talking this morning about how sometimes something positive will come into your life which you weren’t expecting or even looking for, but then you get used to it being there. And you start to fear that it might go away. And if/when it [...]

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Sources of inspiration: Pain in my shoulder; The Egoscue Method by Pete Egoscue
I’ve been feeling some soreness in my left shoulder for the past few days. So I picked up my copy of The Egoscue Method and started doing some of the shoulder exercises in it.
The book’s premise is that much of the chronic pain [...]

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Source of inspiration: Asha Sahijwani’s yoga class
Last night during yoga, I was on my back in some pose and I noticed that my mind was racing. I was thinking about how I couldn’t wait for class to end so I could get home and do this and that.
Then it hit me. What was so wrong [...]

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Hurray! Day 50!
Half way through my 100 Days of Peace. A good time to get back to basics. Focusing on my breath.
I began the day with a meditation in which I focused on my breath. And I started each of my client coaching sessions today with a short centering exercise where we focused on our [...]

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The Curtis Show (see yesterday’s post) often starts with someone asking me, “How are you?”
My conditioned response is a “Good. How are you?” Sometimes it’s an enthusiastic “Really good. How are you?” It’s a knee-jerk response, and it’s given before I even consider the question. There’s no conscious intention to deceive, but there is a [...]

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Today I practiced authentically being me in my interactions with people.
One thing I learned about myself in the past year is that I will go to great lengths to make the people I am with feel good about themselves. Not such a bad thing, right? But I will often be inauthentic in doing so–from a [...]

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Today I’m visiting a friend and he agreed to help me record a guitar part for a song I wrote several years ago and never finished. I knew from past experience that when I sat down to perform the guitar part I might feel self-conscious, inadequate, embarassed, frustrated, and self-critical.
What surprised me is how dampened [...]

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